Better Way to Choose. The hidden narratives that shape our decisions, and how to rewrite them - Claire Rason

We like to think that we make decisions rationally. We know what we want, and we make choices about how to achieve our goals. That’s the whole basis of traditional coaching.

But the truth is more complicated: our decisions that shape our future selves and are guided by hidden narratives, unconscious influences, gender dynamics and unchallenged assumptions. It’s no wonder we so often feel stuck.

STOP is an inner‑first coaching model for people who want to make choices aligned with who they are and who they want to be. It’s a correction to the common assumption that we start with a goal and then explore the path to achieve it. If we’re to escape stuckness or repeating patterns without understanding why, we first need to STOP: to surface what’s invisible, reclaim our agency, and make decisions that align with our identity.

Our decisions are shaped by who we are, and they shape who we will become. Let’s make them better.